given some time to think

appreciated

or

accomplished

In either case, someone else will have to "tell" you that you are. And both have a variety of levels. Everyone in their lifetime hopes that they are appreciated and/or accepted in some way, big or small. And there are some of us that find some way to make a huge impact in the world, if that's how you define being accomplished.

What I hope for myself, is to be appreciated. And maybe there is some level of accomplishment in that, being able to fully put others before myself, in a world that says otherwise.

Only time and prayer can tell...