since you asked...

it's really up to the person regarding this whole cohabitation thingamajig. living in the same roof. same room. same bed. it's all good in the hood. but then you start to look at it from different points of views...

religious point.
big no no on cohabitation. bad idea because it takes away from having that special feeling after marriage where you and your partner FINALLY live together. some say it makes it "more" meaningful if you don't live together before marriage. whatever that means. and of course, there's always that risk of "fooling around". the temptations are there. blah blah blah. so that's a no no.

the in between point of view.
it's okay but don't do anything stupid. you can live with each other but don't "fool around". also, might be a problem when couples get in a fight. if you live together, you can't leave and go to YOUR place. cuz you are at your place. so with this view, it's okay as long as you don't do anything. you can work shtuff out kinda deal blah blah blah.

the i don't give a fudge-i-love-her/him point of view.
it's all good. open season baby. whatever happens happens. c'est la vie. you can fight. fool around. be merry. who cares. blah blah blah.

my choice?
i'm in the middle of the first second and third view. hahahaha. yes. i am.
so if this doesn't make any sense, then too bad. it's not supposed to. and i know that everyone will find some faults with these because i didn't stop to think what i wrote. i just wrote it at the spur of the moment. so go on and revise everything. peace out.